Best Friends
In elementary school was Jasna. Her parents were my parent's friends and she lived above me. I liked her because she was funny and inventive. She was full of ideas and made our lifes „colorful“. I can't really remember all the stupid things we did, but one of them was surely „burying coins in the ground“ in front of our building...I guess we were preparing ourselfs for tough times. After 8th grade we went to different highschools so we drifted apart. There was also a beautiful girl Amela. She was always wonderful to me. I loved her company. She's still one of my best friends, I can tell her anything and I know she feels the same. We don't see each other very often, but she is one of those friends who still feels so close even if we don't constantly see each other. She is so unburdened, truthful and never pretend. And I must say she is full of mind blowing stories, I laugh my ass off when she's describing her crazy adventures.
Then I found the love of my life, Katja M. She was the funniest, prettiest, most supportive girl I'd ever met. With our other „girlfriends“ Gaj, Pivk, Miki, Jure, Beni,... we made a nice team. I wish this group would still be my army! But still, when life gets tricky, I always end up running to Katja. After high school I moved to Ljubljana and went to law school there. I was lucky I wasn't the only one from my school, there was Timon by my side. He was a very best male friend of mine. I still share my heart with him, even if he is not around anymore. At law school I made a wonderful friendship with Anja S. I loved her to death, i saw her like my bigger sister, she was so mature and wise. But when she decided to change the college, I kinda lost her. Not literaly, but my heart just let her go. Well, as life brings strange coincidences, soon I followed Anja's footsteps and changed the college. But when I gor there, she was not the same person anymore. At least I wasn't seeing it. She had new friends - her classmates and she didn't need me anymore. I was trying to get closer to her again but it wasn't the same anymore. (Of course, this is my side of story, maybe she has a totally different one to share). When I was still at law school I met another beautiful and carrying girl, named Anja L. I found such support and inspiration from this girl. For years after we still talk about EVERYTHING. We didn't have any of the same friends, so our conversations were never about gossip. We both laugh really loud and rant and go off on tangents and LOVE it. I love her! We have so much beautiful memories! She is still always there for me, we meet for the coffies, shoppings and other girly stuff. I love sharing time with her, even if she is sometimes a little grumpy hehehe:D Since her I have made a few more best friends. There are Kaja, Valeria, Eva, Barbara, Katarina, Urša,... And in my opinion, that doesn't diminish the importance of any of the friendships that came before.
If your friend isn't "The Best" then what's the point? And for the record, I do have the very best friends in the world :) Wishing the same for all of you.
Okay....the point of all of this babbling is that sometimes comes the time when I wish all of them would be here with me when I need them the most and we would laugh to all stupid things we did and all stupid things we are going to do together.